Gaming laptops are always gonna run quite hot when pushed, I still own an older Dell XPS Gaming Laptop, and it was the best on the market back in the day, but yes, when pushed it would get hot, to the point that I found a workaround to control the fans to blow at 100% all the time while gaming (thank god for headphones)
If PC gaming, then it's best to get a proper tower based one. Although the idea of powerful gaming and being mobile is great, it does have it's drawbacks.
Even the super powerful Asus watercooled laptop, is gonna be noisy, and only properly "cool" when at home on the watercooling station.
Which at that point you might as well get a proper homesystem