lol!!
Well Dan, i hope it all works out for you. I know like you said it must have been painfull to hear her say she won't be coming back but at least you know in your mind where u stand if anything so that must be a relief. I also know it must be hard to lose a friend like that but if you are good friends, you'll still be friends in a month or so two won't you. So if you can i'd give it alittle time before you speak to her again, like you say you can't just get rid of feelings over night so give yourself alittle space to get over it and concentrate your mind on other things. In my opinion staying friends so soon after a break up just doesn't really work. It will only work when both have moved on with their lives. Hanging up on you like she did just shows that she wants you to get the hint to give her space too. She may want to stay friends but not in the way of texting and calling each other every day. How will she look to her ex if's she's talking to the guy everyday or so, who she split with to be with him?
How can she concentrate on her current relationship if your calling her regularly?
Anyway i'm glad your sorting this out so soon and not chasing her. Its going to take a long time to get over her but at least you've somehow started to think alittle better. Just give YOURSELF time, you deserve it, and see how you get on.
From what i know of you on here you seem a decent bloke, who's down to earth, takes care of himself and owns his own business! Thats pretty respectable by anyones standards and it will only be a matter of time before someone else comes along.
Why don't we all join Jay's classes, we could go up their and kick her ex's head in. It won't help but at least i'll feel better!! lol :teeth: