Ming, thanks for sharing that with us. I can't imagine what it's like to see someone die in front of you and I hope I never find out.
We had a friend die almost 2 years ago. He was climbing in the Alps, got caught in bad weather and froze to death, alone on a mountain side. He lived life 110% and, although some would say that was why his was cut short in his 40s, he lived more in that short time than most of us ever will.
It certainly put things in perspective for us and is actually how I ended up with the Zed. I had wanted one for ages but had been reluctant to part with the cash. I had the sudden realisation that I could be dead tomorrow and you can't take it with you.
Like Burgershot says, perhaps everyone reading this thread should give their partners an extra hug today, ring their folks just to say hi and just stop to appeciate everything we love about our lives.