the silver one is Rickdogg's car, he's a super sponsored guy, gets all his parts for free and then some, lucky sod!
the Asuka one (black/cf) is owned by a guy who works in Performance Nissan IIRC, can't remember who owns the rusty one.
great pics
depends how much a new wing would set you up mate. if you manage to get a cheap one from ebay, tbh it might end up being cheaper as you'd just pay the spraying and could fit it yourself.
Otherwise any good bodyshop will be able to sort that, nothing major, imo
notchy gear change when cold is normal, crunchy gears aren't.
The noise you hear is probably clucky rear axles, your dealer should know, do a search on here to learn more
35k and all ok here.
I think it's how people drive it, tbh. Some people might abuse it more than others.
It's also fair to say though, that a couple of clutches have failed prematurely, that we know of.