all inclusive is probably the most boring way to holiday, but i guess it's down to personal taste.
I would never buy a whole package holiday tbh where's the fun in that?
We are also planning to get married abroad, but will be looking at half board maximum, so that we can go explore during the day. Usually we never book pre-planned holidays, we love to do our own thing and find bargains ourselves, and never get transportation and hotel in the same package unless extremely competitive. last septemeber we went to norway for 10 days, we flew ryanair, hired a car with hertz through them (came out cheapest) then did a coast to coast from east to west and back, was awesome! most nights we stayed at hotels that we had already booked, but a few nights we just stopped where we were, found a place, be it a B&B or a log cabin, paid very little money (even compared to Norwegian standards) and we had that sense of adventure that most holidays should have