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I'd rather be in work and active than sat on the couch Who is making you sit on the couch Enjoy your day in the gym, rather than work To be honest after the gym ill sit down and be locked to the couch.

My body is a temple.

I'd rather be in work and active than sat on the couch watching whatever traditional SHITE they put on. That I wouldn't be watching anyway. I will be in the gym from 9am until 4pm tomorrow! Or high as hell after having my molar extracted.

So. 2000 and odd years ago, a man that nobody believes in any more especially in this godless western country where reality tv stars and celebrities are the newly worshipped, was resurrected from a cave in the middle east (and if you're Mormon this is when Archangel Michael, Jesus of Nazareth, fatherless son of Mary and Joseph went to settle good ol' US of A!) and still everywhere aside from petrol stations and the odd corner shop are closed. Why? In this day and age, why does a modern and supposedly forward thinking country at the leading edge of scientific innovation and tools of murder and warmongering (usually done with queen and God's blessing) (two anachronistic notions of a bygone era that should have long since been assigned to the history books as heresy in this modern era that's a slave to media and technology) come to a complete grinding halt? I have toothache and there's not a pharmacy open for continents. It seems.

But I'm having a poo time these days. Help a brother out

Give it to me and ill send another £1000 your way!

Looking amazing mate. I may have to take a road trip to Croatia I think!

It's my feeling that the world is on the edge and only needs a gentle nudge into all out chaos. I do think religion will be banned eventually, after crusades worldwide against islam. Then a sort of mopping up of other religions, cults etc. Basically anything that has some sort of spiritual basis.

I'm so pleased I've castrated myself with years of anabolics! They just dinnae have the poowerrr

Kids. Hell no. One of my friends' sister looked at me puzzled one time when I said that I didn't want kids. She said "what's the point to life then?" That made me a bit sad for her. That she couldn't see past her own little snippet of the world. No desire to travel and see the rest of the planet. Imagine, living in Rochdale, never leaving it and being content with it. Scary. My best friend is a new father. He's completely binned all his mates since his daughter was born. He goes to work, goes home, stares at the baby, goes to bed and repeats the next day and he's blissfully happy. Again, he has no desire to do or see anything else in life. I feel a lot of people have children to give themselves a purpose and basically, something to do/live for.

I have motordyne plenum spacer. You shouldn't need increased space for it.

Thanks guys. I think the fact that I've become so stagnant in life isn't helping anything. I always thought the worst thing to get through in life is losing ones parents. I already went through that and came out the other side and now I'm just coasting along in life. Perhaps I need to really invest in myself and what I have to offer as a person. Not feeling good about myself will inevitably show on the outside. I'm going to register with Christies Manchester and offer support to people with Cancer. I know how important the people who volunteer there are. From giving a lift to and from Christies to just being there to talk. It was surprising how many people were alone there during chemo sessions. I'm thinking maybe my negative view on life and subsequently my relationship may originate with me. I'm quite shut off from people outside my relationship. All my friends are new and besotted parents who refuse to leave their child for a single moment. So yes, I think I'll try and give a bit more to people and hopefully it'll put things in perspective. Might sound strange and like I'm avoiding the issue but I think this'll help.

I will reply to everyone who's advised me. Thanks for offering your advice. I appreciate it.

Lucky I ordered all the parts in one go!

Took us 19 years and as you said, we're not perfect, but we're still madly in love with each other. We make everything work by discussing and willing to sacrifice personal pleasure in the interest of the couple / family. I'm still working on my time spent working rather vs time spent with the family. Very, very difficult to find a balance as I'm such an workaholic but at least I realised there's room for improvement Very good advice on this thread, it's what makes this forum a great community, almost like a very big family. On a funny note Gareth, did you mention to your mrs about the TT plans? Lol yes she's fully aware. Perhaps this is why it's going under! It's all your fault Adrian lol. But yeah I've sank as much (more) money into the house etc her Audi.

Well received. Cheers

Have you ever heard of narcissism? A few of the things you mentioned raised an eyebrow for me, I've been there before too fella. Hmmn I wouldn't say I'm narcissistic. I've given up lots of things as time has gone by and like I say I've lost myself to the relationship.

34. No children thank God. I feel lost in the relationship. Feel I've lost who I am.

I think the problem is mismatched personalities. She's happy, in her element, picking cushions, blankets, pillows, pictures, flowers etc. I just have 0 interest in it any more. It's all the time. Every weekend is shopping for this kind of stuff. If I spend an hour cleaning my car in the sun it's hell to pay. The whole day is ruined and she's sat on the couch arms folded face like a slapped bum. And the drivel she watches on TV. Endlessly. American teen moody vampires and werewolves. I don't even bother looking at what's on any more. I got an xbox one but I get a whole guilt trip if I want to spend time on it so it's just not worth it. Basically I'm miserable doing the stuff she wants. I'm made to be miserable if I want to do things I want to do. Dreading this weekend. It's her birthday and got to smile and bear it. I'm not saying I'm perfect in all this. I just don't know how to get past it as we've had discussions plenty.

Nope. Grew up in an affluent area. Two very supportive parents who adore her. A career in architecture working for two of the main tv soaps. Lots of friends. No life traumas.

Very real and valid points. It's hard (as im sure you know) when you have the memory of how good it used to be. We both moved into a house she owns. Would it help if I moved back to the one I own?

Hello. Been with the missus 4 years now. Was great at first. She pretty much saved my life. Filled my life with happiness and new doors opened etc. Slowly but surely it's eroded to a point where when I see her face I just see misery and complaints and nagging and moaning and I just want to go to a different room. It's really depressing me and sapping my energy in life. Don't even mention the sex or lack thereof. That went out the window about 2 years ago. To be honest I don't even want to be physical with her given the feeling mentioned above. We've spoken and resolved a few times but it's getting worse. Any advice guys?

Nope. It seems I had a sign that said "250,000 horsepower do not bother"

Engine is officially under construction now with 10 week lead time. This is a big game of patience but it'll be worth it!

That seems awfully cheap for a turbo kit.