I don't get anywhere near the time to game these days as I used to when I was in my late teens, early 20's but that's just life.
I just make time for myself whenever possible, ...not always to play games but also to just relax, watch a film or whatever. I know some people are ruled by their partners but that's not me and my Mrs is happy to read a book or whatever whilst I have a go on a PS4 game every so often.