Unfortunately you aren't the first member to complain about the accuracy of Autobulbs listings (it seems we should all double check first) hope you get it sorted, keep us posted so that others know the outcome for the future.
I read through your rant, and managed to mostly ignore your lack of punctuation or use of capital without getting too worked up as you make some good points.
But this last statement pi**ed me off.
Just because someone does not wish to discuss something with you doesn't mean they are putting their head in the sand. Some people don't have the knowledge base or the training to be able to sufficiently take all the information in and come to a reasonable conclusion.
Also.....this is a genuine question not a rant.....but what is your background and how to does that show that you know anymore of the truth of nuclear vessels or operations than the next person? You may be a nuclear physicist for all I know, you didn't make that clear in your initial post.
I'd be interested to know all the sources of your information