I didn't say that it doesn't work - obviously it can, it's just nowhere near as good as actually finding your balls and going up to a girl and talking to her.
You don't need a bar, you go shopping, to the gym, gallery\gig whatever.
You know very quickly if you're into each other or not, and it saves a heap of time and obviously it mostly rejections in the end, that's just how it is !
Use something like speed dating to get your experience up if you've not done it for a while.
(tough love here..)
So you're telling me you need your friends to come and hold your hand so you can meet women ?
That's just an excuse.
Believe it or not, going out getting pi**ed doesn't help