This is really useful information, especially around the ARB's. I was thinking of replacing mine with the Eibachs, but from what you're saying, my 06+ with some improved bushes should be adequate (For my fast road needs).
Sorry to hear that matey, but hopefully you'll be back on the road soon (And it doesn't cost too much to repair)! At least you're not too far from the Zed Shed!
It's the way of the world I'm afraid. Car enthusiasts are a very small minority and manufacturers will go where the money is. People will buy this because of the blue propellers, just like they buy X1's and X3's. To be honest, as long as they keep making the good ones as well it doesn't really matter all that much.
These are literally a few doors away from me in fareham, They do an awesome job, however you will be talking a lot more money than £300 for the set. Be more like £300 a wheel But you pay for what you get.
I got a 4 wheel refurb for less than £300 from the Leeds branch.
Try your local The Wheel Specialist
http://www.thewheelspecialist.co.uk/locations/
They did an excellent job on my wheels. Call them and see if they can do what you want.