T&C - I haven't read the whole thread, but hopefully our offer helps.
Well, it's nearly Xmas, isn't it?
How about we sponsor some of the items needs doing on your car and you fit these parts yourself, would that help to keep the car?
I'm thinking: StopTech F+R pads, TORQEN Undertray (as you have bolts missing on the OEM one I suppose?), drive and aux belts and droplinks.
You only need quite basic tools for these parts to be fitted. Perhaps another trader can help a brother out and sponsor some discs?