an individual preference on this one - you need to try both to see what suits you
but mechanically, there are still no known issues (although there have been one or two manual gearbox failures - but 1 or 2 out of several thousand sold )
She's a bit young for that chat isn't she?
I leave that sort of thing to the missus - annyway - forget it - you're too old for her, unless your middle name is saville ?