Cheers for the comments guys, odd though im not that angry, im annoyed im going to have to fork out to get it fixed but, and this is going to sound odd, but its just a car. I love it to bits and in the year i've had it ive loved it to bits. But I've been too fussy and protective, and Every stone chip or the 1 alloy scratch sent me raving.
Then i realised i cant wrap the car up in cotten wool, its my daily drive and shes there to drive. In the process shes going to get chips, more worn and a few more squeaks and rattles. But we had fun getting them and the car is there to enjoy. So oddly im not as annoyed as i thought id be, it can easily get fixed.
Never thought id say that (and ive not even been drinking)