They used to do these things in Anne Summers et al, I once bought them for a previous gf but the washing up and hoovering cheqe was used way more than the others so kinda lost the point!
And it seems like if I give her this I will keep having to do things for her, i feel i do enough already. Maybe if I give her a cheque book with things things she could do for me she would appreciate it just as much?